I'm done.

Fine. Okay. I'm sex-negative. I'll cop to that. If "sex-negative" is going to be the common descriptor for anyone who has noticed that our species has far too long a history of people using sex to hurt other people for any and all sexuality to be an undiluted good, I'll wear that label proudly. If the alternative is cheering for every male author who writes a story in which a woman initiates sex, even if she appears to do so reluctantly and with little expectation of enjoyment, even if she's an amnesiac escaped slave, or even if she aggressively persists after the person she's trying to have sex with pushes her away, then I'll be sex-negative til the day I die. I'm not slut-shaming. I'm sexist-writer/artist-shaming.